Women's biggest mistakes

I seriously think, women's biggest mistake is trying to change a man. Or thinking they can change their men.

No men will ever change for the women they love, however much they love them. Tiny little habit does not count. But actually even habits also... it's quite impossible for them to change. Take my father for example. My parents have been married for 30 over years, and my mother still complain about my father's annoying habit and he's still refuses to change.

To men, loving the women and changing their habit/character, is 2 different matters. I love you does not mean I should change for you. Which I think, is true. I'd say, maybe 1 in 10,000 men, might change for his love. And he must be quite a wimp and those, will die without love that kind of man.

But women never give up hope, I still have friends around me thinking their men will change, one day. Oh for God's sake, WAKE UP!

Women's second biggest mistake is thinking their men SHOULD know what's on the women's mind without saying out loud. PPPlease.... Nobody can figure out what's on a woman's mind. I am a woman, I know. hahaa.... Women and men are incredibly different, thinking wise. Women tend to complicate things. Whereas men, are incredily simple minded. :P

Most of the time, what we think men are thinking, are incorrect. For example, I received an email telling about one story and I think that's so true. The story goes where a woman, is very unhappy. She wrote in her diary, asking why her husband has been cold to her that day, why he hasn't talk much to her, is it that he is no longer attracted to her? Is there something wrong in their marriage? And then, guess what the husband wrote in his diary: "Liverpool lost today. Bad mood."
See? That is a very typical story.

What we want from the men, please, just tell them. Nothing wrong to just open your mouth and tell them what's on your mind. And DON'T expect too often to have surprises from men, cos, unless he's exceptionally romantic, you're bound to be disappointed. That's just the way it is. If you want a romantic dinner on your anniversary, tell him. Don't wait to see what he'll do. Most likely you'll be disappointed and you'll be grumpy and spoil everything on the anniversary day.

So women who commit these two "crimes", please, wake up.

Naked photo

I really wish to lose a few pounds more. And then, I hope I can have some photos taken, naked. I mean, like those celebrities' magazine cover, naked but used arms and legs to block out the "important parts".

I've always dream of doing that. But first, not slim enough. Second, it's very expensive to go professional studio to take these photos. Third, how to pose naturally in front of a total stranger?? Well, actually how to pose naked in front of anybody (except if got a pro photographer boyfren) at all? hahahaha.. but I think, if I can afford a studio shoot, I will go for it.

My first obstacle : not slim enough. I am working towards a slimmer body. I am confident I can achieve it soon.

Second obstacle : money. This may requires a longer time... I hope by the time I have the spare money for a photo shoot I'll still have a nice body. hahahaha....

Third, shyness in front of the photographer. This, I think can be overcome easily. No problem. Just need some time to get used to.

Anybody with good photography skill wanna volunteer? For free? :p haha..

I hope I can fulfill this dream soon.

And if I got married some day, I hope I can shoot naked photos with my husband. haha. I don't want wedding gown photoshoot but naked photoshoot ;) so meaning my husband's body cannot be too.. er.. sloppy.

HOliday mood is back

Ha! My buddy lied to me! He never even asked Dr whether he can dive. He just lied to me for fun. @#*$&$*#

Dr said can't see fracture line from the x ray but that doesn't mean there's no fracture. Have to see X ray again two weeks later. But at least now we know it's not too serious. Think he should be able to dive.

Walao eh... scared me.. Caused me so bad mood the whole day yesterday. Ha!

Gone my holiday mood

Our diving holiday to Similan is not far away and my buddy gone and got himself injured. @#*&$*&%*$ Fractured his hand. I've told him umpteen time to be careful at work. Yet he keeps getting himself injured here and there. UUURRRRGGGHHHH!!! Totally spoilt my holiday mood. Holiday is secondary. The most angry part is he keeps putting himself in situation where I'd be worried for him.

He was confident that he will make the trip and able to go diving. Today Dr said cannot go diving. UUUUUUUUURRRRRRGGGHHHHHHHHHH!!!! FRUSTRATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was so happy about the trip! Now this had to happen! What the fuck! !!!

Watermark!

Check out the watermark I created!! Nice? Nice?

Africa, in my eye, literally

I hope to go Africa so much, until I see Africa sunset in my eye, literally.


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Did some fun with my eye colour. From left to right, blue, brown and green eyes. Click to see bigger image. I think I look quite ok with green eyes due to the hair colour. hahahaha...

I squash ants for photo-taking

My room is always under attack from ants. I can say that my room is rather clean. But they seem to love my room a lot and are always on the prowl for nest sites, IN MY ROOM. I totally hate it. I will crawl on the floor to follow them but they are often quite scattered when they are in searching mode. Once they found a prefered place, they will march in in lines. So before they found a prefered place, it's not easy to find where they come from and kill them.

I can't kill them all since I couldn't find where they come from. So I will kill one when I see one. I squashed one one night. Apparently I had squashed its abdomen and not the whole ant. These are the tiny tiny ants, about 1-2mm. It's kind of weird that I only squashed its abdomen cos it being so tiny and my fingers so big. Its abdomen squashed but it was still moving, alive. Which prompted me to take out my camera.

It doesn't look good. I know, I am an ant killer. But, who cares? They bug me, I kill them.

The next day I tried squashing ants again, but I meant not to squash the whole thing cos I want to take their photos. Again, so happened that I squashed its abdomen again. But unlike this one here, its upper body detached from the squashed abdomen...and continued to walk away... with only its upper torso.

This is another one. It's rather complete, i.e. not squashed.

Does your bathroom has those little insects? It has a love shape body/wing. It's about, 3, 4 mm in width. I took a photo of it. Then magnify the photo. Wah... I didn't know they look like this, didn't know they have furry body.

And then I went out to the plants, and see if there's any other insects. This little one here, is about 2mm the most. It kept moving and I couldn't get better photos. After a few shots it jumped away. At first I thought it's a ladybird-like bug. When I magnified the photo, I think it's a spider.. I haven't seen a spider like this before, and I didn't know they can be this small. I am not sure though. But look closely, it seems to have 4 pairs of legs, insects have only 3 pairs. And you can see something on it which looks like spiders' many pairs of eyes. Did you know, some spiders have 6 eyes, some 4, some 2.. This looks like it has 4 eyes. This is its side view. So what do you think? You think it's a spider?

And little snail. About 1cm in length. I've taken quite a few shots, only in this one I was able to capture its eyes in focus. So cute~
Oh I love taking these little crawlies' photos~ EXCEPT disgusting things like cockroaches. They better stay away from me...

New cushion for Miko~

I have a doggie soft toy in Miko's cage for her to rest on. But it's rather small, now that she has grown big. I've been looking for a suitable size cushion for her.

The other day went dinner with YY, I came across this. It's a bag actually. But it is really really soft. But it's width is too short for my liking.

So, I did some alteration. I opened the zip and sewed it like this.

Voilà! a nice size cushion just for Miko~~

And tie it to the cage bar. Done~!

Now persuading Miko to go check out her new cushion.

She was trying to reach the strings that I tied the cushion.

Miko checking out her new cushion.

I think she likes it. hahaha.

Zoo again-Nov 07

I am now a member of the Singapore Zoo So happy. Angel and me went to zoo last week. As it was a public holiday, it was soooooo packed. And inevitably, in the zoo, you can always bump into rude kids. They are really "abundant", I'm telling ya.

My head looks really ugly in this elephant picture thing.. So I only put Angel's. hehe.

I forgot their names.. but these small monkeys (marmasot?) are so pretty! They've got golden hands!

Don't you just love the proboscis monkey? They look so much like a 40+ yrs old man with big beer-tummy.

One of my favourites in the zoo, sloth. It was perching on a low branch and looked like it's sleeping, or just resting. The funny thing was, it put its 2 claws, hanging in its mouth. It looked soooo funny!


A lemur baby! Super adorable! Didn't see many lemurs that day though. Just saw 2 adults and this baby.

"Oh don't take my picture, I am shy~"

Another super adorable creature - manatee. Manatee has round shape tail, whereas dugong has a tail like dolphins/fish. This should be just a baby.

Click on the photo and look closely. It's 2 dugong, in a 6-9 position. hahaha..

Look closely they were hugging. Really hugging, instead of fin-touch-fin type which is common for dolphins to show intimacy.

Super super adorable!!!!!!

Happy~

Recently I am quite happy. Starting to lose some weight, getting fitter as I do more cardio exercise lately, there's gonna be a diving trip in December, and I've got my strobe (underwater flash) today!

I was crazy about purchasing the strobe. Had been thinking about it all night and day, literally, night and day. I had been sms-ing my friend Andy constantly. He might find it a nuisance. hahaha. but he was very nice to answer my questions. And eventually he helped me bought the strobe last night. Sooooo happy~~~~~~~

And I went his house today to collect it from him. Guess what, those who knew me well might have guessed... "dream". I dreamt I went to Andy's place to collect the strobe! ha! so typical of me, isn't it?

And another thing so typical of me was... I.LOST.AGAIN.

I checked yesterday and was supposed to change a bus mid way. I don't know what went wrong when I browsed the bus/map guide book. There was no such bus at that bus stand. So I thought I just walk and look for that particular block. I knew it's quite a distance away. But I didn't want to take taxi. Not that I can't bear the taxi fare but I wanted to try and see if I can find it, without map.

So I walked walked and walked, it was a very hot day today, mind you... I don't really like to ask for direction.. but after some time, I had to. I asked an uncle, where are block no 700+. I was still in 800+... He said it's the other way.. So I walked towards that direction.

In the end, it took me half an hour's walking to find it. Whew.. at least I found it. And thanks to recent work out, I wasn't tired at all.

Then I was so happy to go back home with my brand new strobe~ ha~~!! Walking also became lighter, I'm telling you. heheehehe.... I can't wait to get hands on with my strobe underwater! 3 weeks to go!

Slut

I am such a slut... I am.