Love him for who he is

I was watching some videos in www.news.com.au , it's Steven Irwin's wife, Terri's interview clips.

It's just so heartbreaking still. Every word she said touched my heart deeply. She had enjoyed EVERY SINGLE moment she had with Steve. Recalling her relationship with Steve, the relationship between Steve and their children, it's just so devastating to remember the fact, that Steve has left this world. My tears once again, had ran down my cheek. After almost 2 months, still... it's sad. And he's not even remotely related to me. It's just... Steve and Terri had such a great relationship, you can feel how much she loved him from every word she said... She said, she had the greatest 14 years (with Steve) in her life. If she know how it would ends, she'll still choose the same path......

Steve had a wonderful relationship with his children too. Just like Bindi said, "He was always there for me when I needed him" and "Most of all, he was fun".

Steve was like a big kid, always having fun, almost turning their home upside down at times. But Terri never asked him to "stop doing that".

It's a relationship that everyone hopes to have. Steve was Terri's prince charming, her soul mate. She loved him with all she's got. And she said, "I loved him for who he is."

I know how that feels.

Love him for who he is.

One really has to learn, love him for who he is. I didn't put "love him/her for who he/she is" as I normally would. Because, more often than not, it's the woman that asks more from the man.

My believe is, if you cannot love him for who he is when you haven't tie up the knot, then be careful when making your big decision. Girls are foolish. Foolish in believing that men will change after marriage. They never will. Every guy can tell you, they never will. Except one or two in a million who is too overly devoted to love, who place love over his career. This is not the man you'd want, seriously. I'm not saying a man should put his career above everything else including girlfriend or wife or family. But those men who see love as the number 1 important thing in this whole world is... dangerous. Men shouldn't behave this way. This kind of men are probably very possessive. So it's dangerous.

Everything in this world revolves around Yin and Yang, moderation and balance between things. Love, work, personal life, family, friends are all equally important. Too much of any, will be harmful to the others.

Have your personal life, then you won't rely too much on your other half to create happiness in life. When girls are bored, we'll create problems, we'll ask questions, we'll dig tiny holes into bigger holes, then we'll have problems for us to solve to kill our time. hahaha.. but seriously, it is a problem. We shouldn't allow ourselves to be bored, else we will create problems. Girls are born like that.

I think I digressed a little...

I just suddenly feel so...blue.... Those who has an apple, thinks that the apple taste awful. Those whose apple has rotten, is thankful that she once had that apple. Those who knows of a delicious apple that she can't reach, is writing this blog.

What the hell am I writing, you might ask? Never mind. It doesn't matter. Just my usual nonsense.